Category Archives: On the Road Again

2020 Fall Road Trip – Fire Evacuation

IMG_1033Hello from Coalinga California.  Yes we have started our 2020 Fall Road Trip, but it has begun a week early as we were evacuated from our home today thanks to the Napa, Sonoma and Vacaville fires.

We left early, and so glad we did as looking at Apple Maps the streets around our neighborhood are all “RED”.  We listen to God and got out of Dodge….or Vacaville in our case.  You can read more and follow our 2020 Fall Road Trip by going to our “Rollin’ Down the Hallway” page.

Here is a shot of the sunrise this morning at our home in Vacaville!

Been Awhile….a Busy While – Barry’s Thoughts and Quirks

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We’ve just watched “the first look” 5/4/19

This has been the busiest winter and spring since I retired from         Alameda County.

Some good some not so good, some fun and some not so fun, and some was just amazing!!!

 

 

Sorry this post is long, but I need to make up for some lost time……Check out the pictures if your in a hurry.

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Callie and Paul 10/12/85

I lost one of two my Mother-In-Laws, Callie, on January 4th as God took her home and away from her suffering from Parkinson’s disease.  God Blessed me with two great Mother-In-Laws which I see as the happy side of divorce.  Though her Family is extremely sad, I know Callie is happy to be with my Father-In-Law Paul who passed away in the Fall of 2004.

IMG_0257IMG_0259A week later life was heading back to normal again as my Sister-In-Law Nicki and I celebrating our birthdays together with our Family, it was a fun day!  Our birthdays are a day apart (11th and 12th).  My Family let me bake the dessert for our Birthdays…..It was my first cake with flowers down the side and first six layer cake.

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We received a wonderful call one January Saturday afternoon that our Daughter Elise was engaged, and they were heading our way to celebrate!!!   We heard that a few friends were coming to our house for a her Mama’s Spaghetti Celebration Dinner……good thing her Mama and I can work quickly together!!!    

My other Mother-In-Law, Betty, decided she wanted to see the Vacaville Kiaser Hospital some more and decided to visit the ER for a day, and be admitted overnight for observation.  She is a trooper and I think she just looked it as an adventure; and she couldn’t say more nice things about how Kiaser’s staff treated her.

Sandi’s pain management doctor has been working on getting a spinal stimulator approved by her workers comp and to hopefully relieve some of her back and leg pain.  After months of waiting, it was finally it was approved!  The funny thing is that worker comp approved a surgical trail (battery and computer on the outside of the body) which went very well, but not the actual implant.  We were told that only 30% of the actual implants get approved and it would take about two months to have it approved even though the trail went so well.  Fortunately it was approved in just a few weeks so we headed home from a short trip to have the implant installed just a day later!!!  Now months later and a lot of software adjustments there is some pain relief.

We visited the Vacaville Kaiser (for all three of us), Sandi’s pain management doctor and dentist (for two of us) so many times in the last four months…..I’ve lost track!!!

My other Sister-In-Law Janice, our Niece Leanne and her boyfriend Dan surprised us with a visit from NJ/PA for a long weekend!!!   It was a fun visit!!!   I was able to go in to tour mode taking Leanne and Dan to the City for the day!!!  Not to brag, but my “City” tours are great!!!  It was a great visit….finished off with Leanne and Dan making us a wonderful dinner!!!

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Dress Fitting Mother Daughter Fun

February, March and April were full of wedding planning, dress fittings, and more wedding planning.  It was a lot of work, but it was fun!!!   The best part was seeing that our Daughter was finally and extremely happy, and that Brad (our soon to be Son-In-Law) is truly amazing!!!  Our Sister-In-Law Nicki has told Elise and her Cousin Brittany “You want a guy that will walk through glass to get to you”……Brad has more than walked through glass for Elise.

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This Easter was a little different than most as we had another visit from Janice, this time with our Brother-In-Law John.  They were able to come during her spring break at school where she works as an instructional aide.  We were able to squeeze in two day trips during their visit.  One of the day trips was to Tahoe between the spring snow storms and the other to Bodega Bay and Fort Ross.

Besides the two day trips, we had fun just hanging together and showing Janice and John our new community.

Before we knew it May 4th was upon us and what a busy week that was to be!!!  It seemed like everyday that week had an event, and every event was miles away from home.  Though it was a busy time, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. 

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Painting cans that will be wrapped in lace

The wedding was an outside wedding, designed by our daughter who is used to putting on large events for her Ministries for the last ten years.  Brad and Elise wanted to keep the focus on God, Friends and Family so kept the wedding simple and only 200 guests.  I know Elise wanted to invite another 200…..but the number had to be kept low as she held herself to a strict budget.   I kept telling all that were helping us setup the venue the morning of the wedding…..”she isn’t a bridezilla, these pictures and sample tables are just an example”….and believe me she wasn’t even close to a bridezilla.

 

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Steve       Jenny       Brad         Elise        Sandi       Barry     5/3/19

As May winds up we have been enjoying some rest and planning our next adventures.  In just a week we will be heading back to Central Oregon and the Washington Oregon Coast at the mouth of the Columbia River. 

I hope you follow us at “Rollin’ Down the Hallway”!!! 

 

Barry’s Thoughts and Quirks – A Long Journey with God

One year ago today, God blessed us with our new home.  It was a long journey, but God kept us on track.  It all started when, in the winter of 2017, when Sandi and I joined three other families at our Church, Brentwood Bible Fellowship to work through the David Ramsey Financial Peace Bible Study that was led by our Associate Pastor Corwin Wong. Shortly after completing that study, I was invited to join a small Men’s Bible Study lead by our Pastor Andy Cochran.  Each week when we met for our Men’s Bible Study we completed a ten question survey regarding our previous week.  It was question number six “Have you been a good steward of God’s resources?” and question number ten “Where have you been struggling with God?” that eventually convicted me.  My answer to number six was “Yes” and finally four months into the Bible Study I admitted to myself that I was struggling not with my (our) weekly finances, but my (our) future finances.  Meanwhile, in May of 2017 our daughter Elise heard from God that it was time for her to move on from serving as a Junior High Youth Pastor at Bethel, a Mega Church in San Jose; and moving her Ministry to be a Generational Pastor at Re: Church in the small town of Rio Vista.

Sandi and I started visiting Elise more and more as the summer of 2017 went on, and we came to love Rio Vista as we love “Small Town America”.  One day I was helping Elise with a project and needed some supplies from the local Ace Hardware.  On my way to Ace I saw a “Home For Sale” sign that sparked my interest in “how much?”.  In looking it up on Zillow I found out that it was two-thirds the cost of homes in Brentwood.  Over the next several days God spoke to me over and over again about moving to full retirement and get out of the financial debt we were living in (questions six and ten from above).  Sandi and I have had a policy for the last thirty-three years of marriage; if God comes to us three times, we have to share it with each other.  So now I had to share what God was telling me.  This news meant a lot as we had made a lot of friends at BBF and had made some wonderful friends in a town we loved, that would now be twenty-five miles and a bridge toll away.  

24852452_10210794239000186_6447090383977504305_nWithin a few weeks, we had our Brentwood home listed with our friend and realtor, Missey James (note in 2005, we were the first and second sale of her career).  Missey kept us on course through the bumpy real estate ride of having more than thirty people coming through our house over an eight week period.  Our home finally sold in October, to only fall apart in November as the buyer couldn’t get financing to stick.  Due to losing the sale of our home, we lost a house in Rio Vista that we had put an offer on.  It was nothing fancy, but met our needs.  We refused to look again until we had a firm offer on our Brentwood house.  In Early December, we had a firm offer, in excitement, that night went searched for houses on Zillow.  24899976_10210794239520199_659546685246274118_nA house was listed that very day and was going to have an open house on the weekend.  It was inside an HOA and an Active Adult 55+ community which we had resisted.  We decided that we needed to go and see it and a few others that were also having open houses.  Long story short, we called Missey before leaving Rio Vista to tell he we had found the perfect home; more than we ever could have had expected.  Within a few days our offer was accepted and Christmas was upon us.  Moving at Christmas is nothing new for us as we moved from Santa Clara Valley to Oakley on December 9, 1989, and to Brentwood from Oakley on December 23, 2005.  

We have lived in our new home in Trilogy, Rio Vista one year this weekend.  Trilogy does have HOA fees, but a lot less than our HOA fees at Apple Hill Estates, Brentwood and a lot more amenities.  There are many days that we don’t even leave Trilogy as we use the athletic facilities six or the seven days a week.  We swim in our indoor Junior Olympic pool, I speed walk on the indoor track above the pool and do the weight circuit in our gym.  Most days I enjoy the Club House Lobby after I finish my 1mile walk and 25-30 minute weight training circuit.  Sandi swims nearly a mile daily and has broken the 1 mile mark on several occasions. 

The Main Club House (there are currently two with two more opening within the next twelve to eighteen months) has a Cafe’, Computer Lab, meeting rooms, Billiards Hall, and  an exercise room with a floating floor besides the weight room, track and swimming pool.

 

So long story short, simply listen to God and he will Bless you.

2016 Southwest Road Trip

If you haven’t already started following us on our latest adventure I have already posted five days of our adventure.  This adventure is going to take us to Arizona, New Mexico (Santa img_1576Fe), San Antonio and other Texas destinations, and to top it off Las Vegas!!!

This was a shot inside an AMAZING Museum in Scottsdale Arizona!!!
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